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Love hIm..sEt hIm free
Monday, September 13, 2004

Love is blind
Love is foolish..

Dear fRen,
wat use is it to hold on to a guy who treat ya like nothing.
I have lots tat i want to really put it down..
But i cannot impose my view on you..
So just gonna share something with you


Love him? Then let him go...
Something I've learnt over the past few days;
if you truly love the person, and you do not want to stop him from doing things that he likes or being alone whenever he is free or he is the super busy type, and you are the one who is always hoping that he will keep you accompany whenever he is free and enjoy each other's company, then the more you should let him go.

Let him free and do whatever he likes.

I don't mean to burn that bridge. In a relationship like this, it is so tough. Very very tough. You can't expect only one person to hang on to the relationship that it has to be meant for two person. Especially when you expect him to call you, he didn't, and all you could say to yourself is, "he is busy." Or when you expect something new or probably a surprise, it would probably be the opposite or the surprise you wanted.
Different people have different expectations.

This is something which a couple has to compromise. People's attitude change, but will the heart change? That depends how much you truly love him.

What is love? How can it be define perfectly?It simply says: The act of letting go of our own needs and insecurities in order to deeply care for the emotional, spiritual, physical and intellectual well-being of another person. It is not wanting anyone or anything to stop the ones we love from feeling free to be themselves, to find balance in their lives and to know that we love them without conditions.

Notice that it says here Emotional, Spiritual, Physical and Intellectual. It say everything of a human being has and not any one of these should be eliminated or forgotten and most important of all is to love them without conditions.

Love him, so let him go. Love him, so love him for his everything. Love him, then cherish him...

No matter what..
If he meant to be yours.. he will be
If ya love him
set him free..
If he comes back in kind
He is meant to be yours..

I feel like ya have tried ya best,
But ya are worthless to him..
If he really loves you,
things might have been different
Even if ya want to bluff others
you can't bluff urself..
Do you think a guy will hide the status of a gf if he really truly love her..
I mean if it for some really proper reason like his mum will kill him den its all right..
But ya see, it not..His mum knows you..
So y can't his frens know ya as his gf too..?
Dun be a fool anymore..
a fool doesn't get anything except being a fool..
You r not showing anything by being so stuborn..
Do you really think u love him..?
If u think ur love is noble and great, its foolish..
If all the time we praise you tat ya r a very good gf..he doesn't deserve you
He doesn't even noe how to treasure you..
If ya think he treat ya well enough..
den i think ya should try out wif a real man tat loves you more..
I'm sorry..
Ya r a pretty gal
Unlike me..ya'll have many suitors and betta ones,
y confine yourself to someone that dun even treasure you and treat ya like ****
Sorry gal..ya gotta wake up..
I love ya..i will be here for ya..call me if you need me..
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I can't study..i'm slacking
went out wif eddy today..
haha he makes me happy..thank you buddy..
Den spend almost 20 dollars..
haiz..broke..damn broke again..
so tml on ward gonna eat at home
hahah..

I realise it really nice to be out of this thing call love..
i find that though i have lost 2 really impt pple in my life..
But it doesn't matter as long as they r happy..
When ya love someone, its not really trying all out for tat person..
but ya still can try, but if wat he really wants is to be free..den maybe ya should just set him free..
i realise that love is really not possession..




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