Welcome to HELL!!
I thought i should do a little reading so that i wouldnt neeed to suffer so much in hell..=/
So i took out the second heaviest medical boook i had in my cupboard;The Medical surgical book!hey, it a good book alright, it provides information on almost any kind of medical conditions and its treatments.
I stare at the fat book and start wondering what should i start reading up on ..And so i thought i should familiarise myself with common conditions that most patient would have..
Heart disease and diabetes!
The problem wif heart disease is tat it too general..so i tot i shall start wif learning abt Diabetes.
When you talk abt diabetes, you talk abt sugar level being not only too high but too low as well..and therefore the terms of hyperglycaemia and hyp0glycaemia.(in simple terms)
I found an interesting diagram in the book tat illustrates how the body fight to control our sugar level in a normal healthy person like you and me..
So this is wat happen when u get slightly too sweet and ur organs are still working nice and well.
(Glycogen is formed by the liver from glucose in the bloodstream and is stored in the liver)
Don't worry you are still under control. =)
But lets pretend, a paranoid guy decided that he have consume high level of sugar and is turning too sweet, so he avoids eating sweets and carbohydrates or maybe even not eating at all just cos he either dunno or have forgotten that he has his beautiful organs to do all the cleaning up of the suagrs..So instead of this blood sugar level falling to average range, it falls below tat and now he turning a little hypo..
Cool huh?(by the way, Glucagon increases blood glucose level)
The body such an amazing thing isnt it.But please dun abuse the liver and pancreas!
So i hope tat paranoid guy start eating or he will die.
And looking at the diagrams make me think of how relationship between couples work as well.
Most of us have heard of this saying or even agreed and say it ourselves too.. "Treat a ger too nice and she steps all over you?".. and from the ger sides "Never treat a man too good cos the guy will take you for granted"..blah blah blah..it all the same..I find this topic a gender issue..So all in all, i will generalize it to "Never treat a person too good,unless the person knows how to appreciate it and react the same way,you will end up being a total fool."
So what to do??
Guys say: We should sometimes be hot, sometimes cold..Even if you love her, cannot treat her too nice, you will only end up losing her..
Gers say: hehe, the less i seem to care, the more he seem to care..
I know there are different opinions to this, but Save your opinion to urself, i'm not interested to know wat u think abt this..What i'm interested in is how it works and of cos my crazy idea tat it has a link to the sugar level diagrams.(^_^)
Lets look at the diagrams one more time and i will explain why it has a link! My theories have also a link to the reciever and giver theory and three -term contingency - antecedents, behaviour and lastly consequences.
Starting with the first diagram (click to enlarge if you r tat short sighted)
Cos i'm a ger, my main character to my examples will be of cos a ger!Okies, let say a very passionate ger who loves her bf very very much so as you all know, a ger can be really sweet (nice)when she loves a guy so much..
1) so the guy experience "high glucose level" or too much sweetness from the ger..(antecedent)
2)Behaviour: He starts to treat her for granted and mayb not so nice to her anymore...=(( He becomes the receiver and "expects" that nice treatment all the time tat often he ends up not giving or even worst, expect to receive even more.
This is somehow i dun think an intentional behaviour tat reduce the "sugar level"similiar to why you dun tell ur pancreas and liver wat to do, they just do it!!
3) Consequences:The ger din understand the reason why he has a change in attitude or mayb she does and yes, the best thing to do is to give him a break..or another way is not to be so nice to him anymore..cos you see "why should i care when you dun care?"So she is not tat nice anymore, dun seem to care so much anymore and gives a "little break" to the r/s...Sugar level decrease..and so does the r/s..it turns sour..anyone likes sour pulms?
1)"low blood glucose" :The relationship turns sour,the guy wonder what in the world he did wrong or maybe the ger got pms and a change in attitude..
2)The ger tells him he has been taking her for granted, guy probably admits it and start treating her nice..=))
The pancreas release glucagon =He compromise and tries to give sometimes
The liver breaks down glycogen = He start to give even more
3) The ger feels satisfied, the r/s turn sweet.=)
That if the both guy and ger remain and continues to remain mutally nice and sweet to each other.
Sadly, i dun think it always turn out tat way..=((
A) sometimes when the first party got the bad treatment, it is in them tat maybe they dun and shouldnt treat the second party too nice..
----->B)The second party dun always change their behaviour and thus result in a cycle where the second party also believes abt too good treatment theory..
---------->C) So if both parties are stuborn, den i guess the r/s isnt going anywhere..
Like wat my dear fren say, if only when we treat them nice, they also be nice to us then it be all so good and peaceful..But you see, a r/s tat is too peaceful cannot survive either..haiz..headache sia..
If anyone have tried reading up to this point, go think abt it..anyway i admit i'm bored..hee.But hey this is true..i find..
Okie, back to reality, i'm so glad i got plans yesterday nite..i was actually quite upset tat i will be spending a lonely fri nite rotting at home like how i am doing now..But lucky i got lena and Ruhong's company.
Lena and me tried K-ster!
It was introduce to me by Jessie..
Student member gets to enjoy a 50% discount..heee, how nice is tat man.
Anyway, bcos it just the 2 of us, we got the japanese room which is damn small la..
Really japanese style huh?!?Cheapskate sia!!
They use computer monitor screen!!!
And you select the song wif a digital mouse..LOLx
These is like the only thing i like on the wall..
In comparison to Kbox, K-ster has much more english songs..i'm not too sure abt Chinese songs..So we sang til nearly one and i went to watch movie with Ruhong after tat..^^
We caught the Dorm.
It a Thai horror movie,i like Thai horror cos i find their ghost stories really scary..haha..as well as funny.Anyway, it only certain scene tat is scary, overall i gave a 4 out of 5 star.
Well it abt a boy name Chatree that was send to a boarding sch and he made fren wif a ghost tat drowns himself at the old swimming pool behind the school.Friendship blossoms and tru their frenships, Chatrees grows up alot..haha, sound like a rather nice and peaceful show rite..
Now, i'm just waiting for a particular person msg..he hasnt msg me for nearly 24 hrs..and we din fight or anything to trigger this cold yet weird space..Sigh, or maybe i should get myself injected with insulin..
Good luck to myself in PRCP!!
